Because not everything has to end in cranberry-splattered chaos
Thanksgiving dinner doesn’t have to be a verbal obstacle course filled with controversial topics, awkward silences, and regret. Believe it or not, there are still things we can talk about that won’t send Aunt Carol storming off before dessert.
The other day I gave you the “10 Conversations to Avoid at Thanksgiving Dinner“. Today here are 10 safe and delightful conversation starters for Thanksgiving that won’t result in gravy being used as a weapon.
1. “What’s Everyone’s Favorite Thanksgiving Side Dish?”
Start light. This one only gets dangerous if someone says “canned cranberry sauce” with too much pride.
2. “What’s a Family Tradition You Actually Like?”
Keeps the mood positive and lets everyone share something nostalgic—unless the tradition is arguing.
3. “What Was Your First Job?”
Cue the stories about bad uniforms, fast food disasters, and minimum wage misery. It’s bonding through shared trauma.
4. “If You Could Travel Anywhere Tomorrow, Where Would You Go?”
Fantasy trips are safe territory. Nobody argues about vacations—unless someone suggests a cruise and your cousin’s still recovering.
5. “What’s a Movie You Could Watch Over and Over?”
This one never fails. If someone says Die Hard, it might turn into the “Is it a Christmas movie?” debate—but that’s still safer than politics.
6. “Who Has the Best Thanksgiving Memory?”
Guaranteed at least one sentimental story, one funny disaster, and someone misremembering the entire event.
7. “What’s the Weirdest Thing You’ve Ever Eaten?”
Fun, gross, and a great distraction from discussing how dry the turkey is this year.
8. “What’s Your Most Useless Talent?”
Whistling with crackers in your mouth? Reciting the alphabet backward? This one brings laughs—and probably a demonstration.
9. “Who Would Play You in a Movie?”
Flattering or delusional answers welcome. Bonus points for unexpected casting. (“You think you’re Clooney??”)
10. “What Are You Thankful For—Other Than Food?”
Sincere but safe. A little sweetness never hurts. And no one can fight you for being thankful for stretchy pants.
Bonus Topic: “What was your favorite morning radio show to listen to?”
Who mornings the most fun. What what was that guy’s name that used to work with Rick Beckett? Winkers or something like that! “I wonder what happened to him?”
So skip the drama this year. Go in with a game plan. Keep the conversation light, the wine flowing, and the stuffing unpolitical.
And remember: laughter pairs beautifully with pumpkin pie.
