I said it. You heard it. So why are we pretending this didn’t happen?
There’s a strange phenomenon happening in the world today. Maybe you’ve noticed it.
You smile at someone. You say “Good morning.” Maybe even throw in a friendly “Hello!” just for kicks.
And they just… walk past you.
No smile. No nod. No grunt.
Nothing.
Just eyes forward, air pods in, like you’ve suddenly become a decorative mailbox on the sidewalk.
Did I Just Get Ghosted on the Sidewalk?
I’m not asking for much. I’m not trying to start a conversation about the economy or your feelings about quinoa.
I’m literally just saying “Hi.”
One syllable.
It’s the universal handshake of casual human decency.
And yet, for some people, that’s apparently too much.
Are We That Busy?
Let’s give them the benefit of the doubt.
Maybe they didn’t hear me.
Maybe they’re having a bad day.
Maybe they’re deep in thought, solving complex physics equations in their heads on the way to the grocery store.
Sure. That could be it.
But then again… maybe we’ve all just forgotten how to be friendly humans.
Basic Social Skills: Endangered Species?
Once upon a time, a “hello” was just the polite thing you did when you crossed paths with someone. A nod. A smile. A “good morning” on the trail, in the hallway, at the coffee shop.
Now? It feels like saying hi is a bold act of rebellion. Like I’m trying to sell them something.
Nope. I’m just trying to acknowledge your existence. That’s it. That’s the whole transaction.
It’s Not That Hard, Folks
You don’t even have to stop walking. You don’t even have to like me. Just move your face slightly in my direction and push some sound out of your mouth. “Hi.” “Hey.” “You too.” Anything.
Because when we stop acknowledging each other completely, that’s when the world gets a little colder.
And frankly, it’s cold enough already.
So the next time someone greets you in passing, give it a shot. Say something back. Smile. Nod. Grunt like a friendly woodland creature.
It’s a greeting, not a contract negotiation!
